Cities and states as well can be said to possess their own distinct characteristics, just like humans. While some are thriving and lively, others are tightly knit, quieter and reserved.
Cities and states, just like people, can be classified based on the Myers-Briggs personality types, each exemplifying either sensing or intuiting, introversion or extroversion.
ISFPs are one of the sixteen, and in the hustle and bustle of city life, may find the culture unsuitable for them. In fact, several studies have shown that in general, ISFPs tend to underperform in the corporate culture of city life. The routine 9 to 5, and daily commute through a concrete jungle just isn’t suitable for the quiet, aesthetic and nature-loving ISFPs.
So where can they run to? Where are some of the best places for them to thrive? In this blog, we have listed the top 5 best U.S. states for ISFPs to either live or visit. In these places, they’ll be able to find refuge from the busy city living.
Arizona is a perfect state for those seeking adventure, it has beautiful national parks that provide ISFP with a quiet and serene atmosphere. The state offers ISFPs with a place where they will have no trouble emerging themselves into sole adventures with beautiful outdoors as their backdrops.
Places like the Grand Canyon are ideal places for ISFPs to take hikes and long walks. Of course, they would prefer to go there in the off-season where there are lesser tourists and camera-wielding enthusiasts.
Land yourself in New Orleans, the bustling city, home to great arts, culture, soul and history. The city is dynamic, fluid and counter-intuitive, a unique place that perfectly fits the ISFP portfolio.
It has round-the-clock nightlife and a vibrant live-music scene that reflects a melting pot of three cultures: French, African and American. Unlike the soulless cities, New Orleans offers any ISFP the opportunity to explore interesting artefacts, art and culture.
State of Washington
This is a perfect place for people who hold a bit of mystery, the bold and practical individuals. It is a state that holds a place for the spontaneous characters, those who love hands-on work and like exploring ideas through trial and error methods, the type who are quite enigmatic when talking about their work. The artistic influence that is provided by a city like Seattle in Washington gives ISFPs plenty of fun and an opportunity to engage in great outdoor activities and various opportunities to explore.
With its lively art scene, Marfa in Texas is a perfect place for an ISFP. Its small population makes it an ideal place for an introvert who desires to explore the world and push the passions. It is a place that an ISFP will not shy away from shaking up social conventions, with their actions and aesthetics.
The Ballroom Marfa arts centre hosts several art events like exhibitions, concerts and cultural festivals. Besides that, it’s far away from the big cities, somewhat in the middle of the Texan desert. It’s the perfect location for ISFPs to recharge.
Missouri and more particularly, Kansas City, will perfectly offer you what you want. Kansas City is known for its tradition of jazz music, culture, its distinctive BBQ cuisine and its craft breweries.
Although it’s a city, its population of about 500,000 makes it one of the smaller ones in the United States. Moreover, it retains much of its culture and ISFPs will find themselves home in such a place.
Other states in the United States are possibilities for the ISFP, like Wyoming and Mississippi. When you move away from the major cities like San Francisco, New York City, you’ll find that the U.S is actually rather conducive to quiet nature lovers like ISFPs. There is indeed a stark cultural difference from the major cities and the smaller ones all over.
So for ISFPs who find themselves out of place in the investment banks, in Wall Street or Main Street, can head inland to some of the smaller cities – they’ll probably find much more happiness in small-town America.
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Out of all Myers-Briggs personality types, the ISTJ is considered to be one of the most common ones. It covers around 13 percent of the total population. ISTJs, being introverts, are not social, and they have quite a reserved nature. As they tend to follow the rules and regulations, they are also known to be very reliable, dependable and dutiful. However, their nature doesn’t always sit well with everyone, especially the Perceiving (P) Types.
Because they want things organized and settled, they tend to get annoyed when things don’t go their way, and you’ll want to watch out for that.
In case you didn’t know already, here are five things that annoy an ISTJ:
- Emotional people
ISTJs have no patience for emotional people.
They are great advocates of logic and concrete facts in almost everything. They never reach conclusions based on emotions, intuitions or assumptions. Hence, they just can’t bear with people who are indecisive or those who make decisions based on their emotions or impractical facts and logic.
- Not following the rules
Rules and regulations matter a great deal to the ISTJ. They believe that following the rules can lead to consistency which eventually results in increased productivity.
Hence, they always stick to the rules and strictly follow them. If someone comes to an ISTJ and tries to suggest a ‘better way’, or tries an untested method that is not approved, it leaves them annoyed.
- Unexpected changes
ISTJs want things to move according to plan. Anything out of the plan is considered a failure. As a result, ISTJs plan things far ahead of schedule. If there are unexpected changes, ISTJs get really bothered. It’s the same with sudden new suggestions in the middle of doing something, in their mind, if the decision has already been made, then no changes should be entertained.
They hate uncertainty, and anything or anyone that causes these unexpected changes to happen leaves them feeling annoyed.
- Inconsistencies of others
Being so naturally consistent in word and deed, anything who does not do likewise frustrates the ISTJ. ISTJs stick to their words and promises, careful never to exaggerate or promise things that cannot be fulfilled.
Hence, those people that do those things leaves them very irritated. Not following through on one’s words, not fulfilling one’s commitments is extremely bothersome to the ISTJ.
ISTJs prefer that things can move on schedule. They don’t like to leave things to the last minute and rush, because they get flustered and uncomfortable when they have to do so. If they have to work with a procrastinator, they get really annoyed.
To them, the procrastinator is lazy and ill-disciplined, not fulfilling their duties and commitments. Hence, they may even come across as micro-managing or controlling toward these people.
There you go, five things that annoy an ISTJ. If you’re an ISTJ, does this ring true for you? Share with your friends so they understand you a little better!
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Whether you are starting out in your career or trying to find your footing in the best paying jobs, it is useful to know your personality. While personality is not a determinant of success or failure, it can be helpful to use it to choose the right career. Armed with that information, you will have a good position to select a career that is both rewarding and fulfilling.
INFPs have strong value systems and a deep interest in people; they usually put the needs of others above their own, show strong devotion and loyalty to causes and people they believe in. They are future and growth-oriented, creative and inspirational, original and individualistic, highly independent, value authentic relationships.
Strengths that INFPs bring into any career
INFPs are not particularly driven by status or money when they are selecting a career; rather they align themselves with personal values that allow them to help others. They are mainly motivated by inspirations and visions, mostly preferring to work on projects or causes that are important to them.
Because of this, they often struggle in the corporate sector, and find themselves lost and disillusioned in an environment that is primarily concerned about productivity, results, and money.
While some INFPs I have met learn to balance this disconnect, most are tired and weary of having to live life as ‘another person’ from 9 to 5, and only having a short time to be themselves. Some even fall into depression.
Yet, for many in the developed countries, with high costs of living and many expectations of loved ones, many of them don’t have much of a choice. This article is written for those INFPs who desire life to purpose, meaning and yet not find a need to compromise their deeply held values and their desire for independence.
Careers that pay INFPs
INFPS are natural empaths, with a unique ability to connect with people’s emotions. Their individualism plays a great role in enabling them to think outside the box and never run out of inspirational ideas. It takes creativity and inspiration to write up a spark, which INFP personalities have. The creative element with people in this personality type helps them succeed in writing-based careers and particularly in journalism.
According to current statistics, writers on average have a median wage of $33.19 per hour with annual earnings of $69,030, this places it among the top paying careers. Future growth is expected to be between 15-21% with more job openings likely to be created in the period of ten years, primarily due to the rise of demand for online copywriting.
Psychologists or Psychiatrists
Research has shown that psychiatry and psychology are two areas that INFPs can be intellectually inspired in, get an opportunity to grow professionally, creatively provide solutions and above all, help other people improve their lives.
These professions play on INFPs’ strengths; being able to read between the lines, spot inconsistencies, adopt unique responses at situations, excel in reading other people’s motives and emotions, and work face to face with the customer. INFPs draw their inspiration from seeing other people succeed; you will find them in almost all fields ranging from marriage counselors to drug and abuse sectors, and business consultancy among others.
The average salary for people working as psychologists or psychiatrists is relatively high, for instance, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, a psychologist who is working with the children services department earns close to $100,000 per annum.
Architecture as a career requires a lot of creativity; the famous Lloyd Wright was an architect. This career allows INFPs to fully exploit their creative muscles without the risk of falling into the oft-stereotyped starving artist.
An idealist in this career has an added advantage; one can design structures which serve humanity well. In fact, many of the most iconic buildings in the world were probably designed by artists that let their imaginations run wild.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the mean salary in the sector is around $74,520 with some of the highest earners pulling well over $120,000 per annum.
Human Rights Crusaders
Human Rights Crusaders are law professionals who represent those whose rights and liberties have been abused. One can specialize in a given area such as mental health, discrimination, social justice, or asylum among others. Although the journey through law can be tough, the earnings and the personal reward of standing up for the hurt and marginalized can be rewarding.
The current figures from the Bureau of Labor Statistics put the average salary earned by people in this profession to be $133, 470.
Other Well-Paying Jobs
Of course, the above listed are not exhaustive. There are other careers that INFPs can find rewarding too. Other paying careers for INFPs include medicine, human resources, counseling, teaching, and graphic designing.
If you’re an INFP, the important thing is to understand that there is likely no ideal start for you. You can’t expect to be paid well if you want to follow your passion rather than doing what others expect of you in employment. However, as you keep building and investing in your skills, you’ll soon be able to dictate the terms and thereby design a life that is suited for yourself!
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There is a common misconception out there saying that introverts do not like traveling. Far from it, they love it actually—only that they prefer visiting places different from those frequented by the extroverted family members and friends.
Introverts like their space, which is cool and with quiet natural settings, at locations where they can enjoy the intimate and one-on-one conversation as well as a time to reflect.
Here is a list of ten great places where introverts will find the tranquility, freedom, and ambiance for personal reflection. Behold these beautiful locations in West Coast, United States of America.
1. Yosemite National Park
Located in California, the national park has five epic waterfalls, numerous hiking trails and lots of animals. You will get stunning views along the way with some of the sites which should not be missed like the Taft Point, Mariposa Grove, El Captain, Glacier Point, Half Dome, and Yosemite Valley. Taking a night bike ride will provide you with an opportunity to see the stunning sky. To cap it all, spend some time at the Majestic Yosemite Hotel, where a sumptuous experience awaits you. This is an experience that you are not likely to forget any time soon.
2. Redwood National Park in California
The majestic trees in the park will make you feel like a dwarf because they are huge and stand very high, almost ten times tall when compared to the Statue of Liberty. Regarding age, you cannot even imagine, some date more than 2000 years old. While you are here, visit the Big Tree, Lady Bird, and Johnson Grove as well as drive through the Chandelier Tree.
3. Grand Canyon Park in Arizona
Rated as the most famous Canyon in the United States and indeed in the whole world. If you have not visited this place before, you will know it for sure when you see it. It is something that you cannot miss, even from a distance. It is such an amazing place to discover and the thrill it offers, for the relaxation and its beauty is unrivaled.
4. Napa Valley
Rated as home to some of the best wineries in the United States, Napa Valley has a stunning view too. Here you are spoilt for choice as far as the vineyards that you can visit. Some of the options include Modus Operandi Cellars, St Clair and Pride Mountain among others.
5. Lake Tahoe
Located in California, West Coast, Lake Tahoe is a gorgeous place to visit. You will enjoy the walking trails, spend some quiet time at the beach or even engage in some sporting activities.
6. Death Valley
Although its name sounds scary, this location is pretty magnificent. It is actually one of the hottest locations on earth, so remember to carry some water. While you’re here, you get an uninterrupted view, and visit places such as the Badwater Basin, a location described as the lowest point this side of America.
This is one of the oldest Hawaiian Islands, a place covered with lush greenery and provides visitors with a stunning coastal view. Although it is a popular spot, you will not find the size of crowds that frequent places such as Honolulu or Oahu. While you’re here, visit the beaches, take a hike at Kalalau trail and get a stunning view of the Napali coast.
8. Visit Seattle
This is a city you will fall in love with, as introverts who have been here confess falling in love with the place. People are nice and friendly compared to cities such as New York and Los Angeles. You will feel more at home.
9. Manele Bay, Hawaii
You will get a real tropical experience here, and get to enjoy the beautiful views of the Hulopoe beach and the natural beauty that the bay has to offer. To avoid the large crowds that frequent the place, take a hike at Hulopoe bay and see the sea cliffs, take your time and witness some of the breathtaking views of a greatly cherished landmark
10. Oregon Coast
Here you will get a totally different experience, one that fits well with introverts. Although the beaches are not warm, they provide a stunning and beautiful feeling that relaxes you. With the fog that hovers over the place, you will feel like you are the only person around. Offseason, Oregon is a stunning and peaceful place to be.
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Most ENTJs become direct leaders, and because of their style, get accused of being the ‘bad guy’. Truth is, ENTJs know what they want, and they go after it in the most pragmatic way possible. Because of their high confidence in themselves and their ability to make things happen, ENTJs get misconstrued as arrogant, brash and overbearing.
This, of course, is off-putting to other personality types. Their determined minds and resolute desire to achieve those goals comes across as ruthless or overbearing because it is so unlike most of the other types.
It’s important to know that just because they have a naturally dominant personality, they are not heartless people. They have the same love and desire to help people, but simply express it differently from others.
It’s important to recognise that just because they have a dominant personality, ENTJs are not heartless. In fact, they respect when others hold their own about things that matter, so long as it is based on facts that the ENTJ can see.
Of course, this is not to say ENTJs have no weaknesses. When they are working, ENTJs can come across as impatient, self-centered or intolerant of others.
But today, we want to debunk this myth of them being the bad guys. We want to set straight some misconceptions people have about ENTJs.
Misconception: ENTJs are too self-centred to be an effective leader.
Driven by their desire for excellence, ENTJs naturally take leadership roles or strive for the highest of positions. They are active communicators and make themselves heard in every situation.
People mistake this for self-centeredness, feeling that the ENTJ only speaks for themselves and their own agenda. This may be true for some ENTJs, but also true for many other personalities out there.
Truth is, ENTJs think for the overall growth and well-being of organizations, and sometimes the decisions they make can appear sacrificing individuals’ well-being. But all in all, they are utilitarian, looking out for the most benefit for the largest group of people. People may disagree with their approach, but ENTJs are unapologetic about the way they go about solving problems.
Misconception: It would be impossible to work with an ENTJ.
ENTJs come across has brash, unforgiving of mistakes and quick to judge. This makes them appear hard to work with. It’s here that people come to believe that it is impossible to work with them.
Actually, ENTJs welcome input of any sort, especially one that challenges their viewpoint. ENTJs like being challenged, and when their team or colleagues challenge their viewpoint, they get stimulated and engaged. This is because they believe that any good idea needs to be challenged to be refined and proven.
People who understand that find that working with ENTJs to be a delight. There’s a strong exchange of ideas, but nothing is personal. It’s all about the validity of the ideas and whether they work. If you can leave aside your personal feelings, working with ENTJ can be good for your personal and professional growth.
Misconception: Being in a relationship with an ENTJ would be impossible.
ENTJs are known for being a little out of touch with emotions and can risk being insensitive. However, as a partner, their confidence can serve you well as they are always looking for ways to improve themselves and the way they showcase their love.
ENTJs are very open to feedback. If you’re the partner, they will take what you say seriously and look for ways they can improve themselves. This can be rather delightful; how many partners do we know are willing to actively change themselves to be better?
Hence, ENTJs often start out rough in the edges. They aren’t the best first dates, or adept at saying the right things at the start. What’s important is that they are committed to the process of improving and becoming better for you.
Misconception: You can’t show emotion around an ENTJ.
At first sight, ENTJs look ruthless and cannot care less about your feelings. They can look like people without a heart.
ENTJs actually have emotions just like everyone else. But because they’re not used to using it in their decision-making, they tend to be more awkward when having to access their emotions or show their emotions. Often, it may come out in an uncontrolled fashion, which is why ENTJs tend to avoid it more. Mature ENTJs, however, know how to manage their emotions together with their logic.
Also, in the making of decisions, especially corporate ones, ENTJs don’t see emotions or people’s feelings as a valid point to consider. After all, what is best for the organization is regardless of how people feel about it. This is true from a logical standpoint. However, people who don’t understand this about the ENTJ tend to just label them as emotionless, heartless creatures.
All in all, ENTJs have a reputation of being very hard to be with. This is true, if you don’t know how to engage them. In the end, they are like everyone else, doing their best and making sure they are faithful and excellent in their tasks.
If you can embrace the natural weakness of the ENTJ, you’ll enjoy their natural strength of leadership, clear goals and resoluteness toward their dreams.
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Dating an ESFP? Lucky you!
ESFPs are fun-loving, charismatic and generous people. Approachable at all times, they want to make every moment with your count. Nothing too serious, and nothing too heavy. They just love having you and spending time with you.
However, ESFPs are often misunderstood. Their playful nature may imply to some that they’re not serious nor committed to the relationship. Yes, that is the case if you’re constantly trying to ‘tie them down’.
But if you love your ESFP partner and want to settle down long-term with him or her, here’s what you can do to make them happy:
Do fun stuff together.
Think of social and fun stuff to do. ESFPs like to engage in many things at one time as they are energetic and sociable. Their lives are always packed with enjoyable activities, socialising, friends and work.
Watching a football game with enthusiastic fans or go dancing at a nightclub appeals to them. Nothing too serious, too deep or abstract.
Keep them hooked
It’s very easy for ESFPs to lose focus and get bored when there are no new things around them. Because of this, they tend to look elsewhere, and that might also give them a reputation for jumping from one relationship to another. So if you’re dating them, try to keep them hooked and engage in different activities at one time.
It’s a good idea to invite your partner to learn something creative and new like music, dance, cooking, a wine appreciation club or an amateur theatre group. Most of them are also interested in team sports so you can go for a para-jumping group or rowing team for couples. The whole point is to keep them involved in new things so that they don’t look for thrills elsewhere.
Don’t grudge them the limelight
ESFPs are most of the times at the centre of groups, work, and social situations.
They are exceedingly popular owing to their easy-going and friendly nature. So don’t be disturbed if once in a while your partner has a calendar packed with events whether it includes you or not.
It might be difficult to understand initially but try to make your own plans with friends or reading a book at home. The point is to give them space and not to make them feel that they only can spend time with you.
Appreciate their generosity
There is no doubt how generous and warm ESFPs are. They will initially sweep you off your feet with their desire to please you. They will go to great lengths to make their partners happy. You are likely to get a lot of surprises from your ESFP partner.
Sometimes, this nature can lead to extravagant buying. Instead of chastising them, appreciate their exuberant natures and generosity. Gently remind them that they can be more moderate in their purchase in the future.
Encourage light discussions
ESFPs like it when they can have fun and enjoyable discussions and avoid places where people are judgemental, critical and negative.
Build an atmosphere which is positive with no conflict. Make sure you don’t use a harsh or critical stance when discussing an issue. Approach any matter constructively and cooperatively to encourage non-judgmental dialogue.
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Many introverted couples turn out to have a successful long-term relationship usually because they share similar interests and level of understanding.
Planning travel places require a conversation between the couple as to which places will fuel and recharge both of you. Well, we’ve made things easier for you.
Here’s a guide to 6 best travel experiences for introverted dating couples:
Beach getaway at Viceroy Riviera Maya
It is a secluded escape on the Caribbean Sea in Mexico with Mayan-inspired spa treatments and calm surroundings. Hit this place when it’s not crowded.
If you have a good budget, go for a luxury villa with private pool and outdoor terrace. The villas are surrounded by tropical jungle gardens and are private. This unique resort is a great place to visit and the most romantic beach getaways in Mexico.
Treat your partner and send them to spa treatments that have holistic touches and are extremely relaxing. There is a spa area for Temazcal bath and herbs native to Mexico’s Mayan Riviera are incorporated in the treatment.
If you plan to spend a proper vacation here, don’t forget to boat, fish, horse ride together and most importantly, walks down 7 miles of white sandy beach romantically.
Stargazing at National Parks, USA
One of the best places for stargazing is at a national park in the USA. Plan a trip with your introverted loved one for this perfect activity. It’s a romantic place and a good excuse to cuddle with each other as the night goes long and the temperature drops.
Focus on the star-lit night sky and enjoy the breath-taking moment with the God-made night spectacle. Know that your date is enjoying this even when the two of you are not talking. Complement each other on how refreshing it is to stay in this quietness and how nice it is to be with your date.
Get Lost In Tokyo
Japan is an amazing place for people who like to stay anonymous. No one really bothers what you’re up to, and that is what introverted couples look for.
Japanese people are not intrusive. You can keep on weaving through a sea of people without talking to anyone. Take a ride on a bullet train with your loved ones from Tokyo to Mt Fuji and enjoy the beautiful scenery.
You are guaranteed to have a peaceful ride with no talks as it is considered bad and rude in Japan to make noise on the train or talk to people. This journey is an extremely energising, scenic and a memorable train ride.
Bike around the French Countryside
Are you both more into sports? Do you have strong calf muscles and good speed? Try a biking tour. Such trips appeal introvert people as it offers them time to be alone and spend it with the ones they value. This high-energy activity is a good idea because such adventures become great memories. Getting a workout while riding around the scenic French countryside is a dream come true.
This gives the both of you time away from socialising with others. Also, none of you has to feel guilty for eating too many tasty French croissants.
Backpack around Europe
This is the ultimate travel place where you both will realise how much the two of you relish each other. If your partner is more like a best friend, then make this date a mixture of love and friendship! Crash at a reasonable hotel with strangers, where it’s not necessary to engage with them. Go ahead, backpack and hike.
The best part of Europe is that you truly become a part of nature. It helps you realise that with one good company, you have everything!
Picnic at San Francisco
There are tons of beautiful parks in San Francisco. Take your date to a picnic at sunrise, during the day, sunset or night – whenever it’s quiet and calm. Surprise him/her with their favourite drinks and foods. It gives you one-on-one time to know each other better.
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Personality plays a major role in career assessment and has been used for decades in career planning and other programs that help people identify and select the right path for them. In a nutshell, the personality guide lets you know how you act, think in a work environment which is useful in career selection.
Let’s dig in the careers that are best for you according to your personality type!
ISFJs are good at caretaking roles because they are patient, thoughtful and kind. A role of teachers and nurses is perfect for them. They tend to follow a system. At the same time, they are perfect nature required to carry out consulting, catering and such business plans.
ESFJs love to lead and promote welfare as well. Their organizational skills and attention to details are phenomenal. If you are an ESFJ, you are likely to enjoy a career as HR coordinator, counselor, non-profit director or principal. You also often excel in conflict resolution, participation, and promotion at an office.
ISTJs enjoy their place in a system. They are capable, dependable because even though they can work independently, they are great team players. You just want an efficient work. Career paths include administration, IT, finance and accounting. Others that involve history and research as a professor or scientist are also excellent options.
ESTJs run the show undoubtedly. You are the one who implements things the most and can excel anywhere you want to. Careers like detective, police work consulting, business or finance are perfect for you.
ESFPs are known as performers and are drawn to environments where it’s easier to express themselves. You like engaging others naturally and have an eye for aesthetics. Non-traditional environment careers like a performer, teacher, hairstylist, designer or comedian suits you the most.
ISTPs love to have their space for execution once they know their role. They are highly practical and do well with analytics, configuring stats, data into how they work. ISTPs tend to excel in occupations like an engineer, carpentry, mechanics and surgery.
ESTPs are quick on their feet, courageous and sharp. They tend to fit in environments that are never dull. You prefer to be independent regarding actions and thoughts. Careers like entrepreneur, paramedic, surgeon, engineer, firefighter and such which requires challenges are great for you.
ISFPs need the most space compared to other types. They like to be creative and can’t stand a 9 to 5 schedule or even abide by the rules. You are your own boss and work as a photographer, creative director, artist, designer or stylists that have skills make you happy.
ENFPs have their own vision and are born leaders. You like dreams that can turn into reality and have the ability to take actions. You can be a good force in the entrepreneurial endeavor and non-profit, public relations.
INFPs have good skills in creativity, research, and writing. You do well as a professor, scientist, writer, or artist. Owing to your practical skills, non-profit work, social work or HR is good as well.
Natural-born are dynamic leaders. They know exactly how to capture an audience and work towards an interpersonal goal. ENFJs are drawn towards directing, consulting, therapy, coaching, politics, acting or such professions that require empathy, persuasion, and charisma.
INFJs are socially intelligent and a bit introverted. You like challenging problems and work out their solutions. You do well as counselors, researchers, doctors, occupational therapists, and teachers.
INTJs are the masterminds of solving complex problems. You are happy to be in a place to discover new things. Careers as an architect, writer, scientist, and engineer hold potential.
INTPs like to innovate and work alone. Theory and logic- driven careers intrigue you the most. This includes engineering, medicine, chemistry, physics or psychology, and economics.
ENTPs find it really hard to find a career path. You value new problems and challenges every day. You would do well as a journalist, researcher, doctor, entrepreneur, or engineer.
ENTJs execute their own vision and thrive in running a business, management roles or running a team as a point person. You’re great at logical and reasoning and thrive in fields like sales, law, finance, and business.
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Most people like shopping. If you’re in the developed world like the U.S., you’re probably someone who enjoys seasons like Black Friday, Cyber Monday and Christmas, because that’s the season where you have the perfect excuse to shop!
However, not everyone likes to shop in the same way. The differences come in what we buy, how much we spend, and where we do our shopping. To some types, shopping is just about acquiring what they need, to others its therapy and even a social event.
Interestingly, we can make certain predictions about how we shop according to our personality. Being aware could be the first step for you to modify or adjust the way you shop, so you don’t fall prey to weaknesses! Here is what your personality type says about your spending habits.
Extrovert and Introvert Spending Habits
Extroverts get energy through interacting with others, they find social activities refreshing and uplifting. Also, they are more likely to be impulsive buyers than Introverts. This means they are usually the ones who organize the shopping trips, the holidays or social outings. Because often take action before thinking about it, they’re more likely to experience buyer’s remorse, and in some cases, get themselves into credit card debts.
Introverts, on the other hand, gain energy from spending time alone. They tend to reflect more than act and tend to have narrow views about things that affect them financially. The result is that they may often miss out on financial opportunities that could have possibly improve their fortunes. With normal purchases, they also tend to be more careful, thinking about whether they need something before showing their credit card to the cashier.
Both personalities can greatly benefit if they have their trusted and close friends giving them advice when they make crucial financial decisions. By doing this, extroverts would examine their thoughts before jumping in; something that would save them from wasteful and risky buying. Introverts would benefit from getting different viewpoints which they would not have considered otherwise.
Sensing and Intuition Spending Habits
Typically speaking, Sensors tend to buy products that have immediate, practical benefit, while Intuitives tend to buy products that have long-term, or future significance and impact. For example, Sensors are more likely to spend on delicious food and aesthetically pleasing items. Intuitives tend to be less concerned about how they eat, and if they were to buy luxury goods or aesthetically pleasing items, it often has a personal meaning or a long-term positive benefit.
Sensors often have a thing for details. They remember the small things and then to calculate the small expenditures well. However, if they’re not careful, they may end up being penny wise and pound foolish. Intuitives often don’t put their minds on everyday expenditures, seeing them as too small to be concerned about. However, they might spend when someone sells something that promises them a dream or a hope in the future – which may often be false, or sometimes a scam (which they’re more likely to fall prey to).
Thinking and Feeling Spending Habits
Thinkers use logical analysis when deciding if they need to buy something. They will use their logical mind to justify their purchases. Feelers tend to like to spend in ways that will help others – which means they are more likely to give gifts, treats among others without expecting things in return.
Although Thinkers may use their heads to justify their purchases, this doesn’t always mean that they’re right in making those choices. They do, too, make emotional choices, but they will probably make some logic to back these decisions up. Feelers also need to think twice about why they buy things – sometimes they may only spend their money to please others or to gain favor from others. While both ends are okay in moderation, taking it to an extremely often leads to unhealthy spending habits.
Judging and Perceiving Spending Habits
Judging types tend to be more careful and measured in their spending. They are likely to pay their bills on time, stick to a budget and are less comfortable with unplanned spending. Perceiving types tend to be more careless with their spending, not budgeting and just deciding at the moment if they want to buy something. It is not to say all Perceiving types are spendthrifts, they just simply don’t budget and take a more spontaneous approach in their spending.
The 16 Types and their Spending Inclinations
With that, let’s look at how each of the 16 types will tend to be perceived when it comes to spending money.
ISTJ – Frugal, Careful Spenders
ISFJ – Frugal, Nest Builders
ESTJ – Status Seekers, Budgeted Spenders
ESFJ – Status Seekers, Budgeted Spenders
INTJ – Calculated, Strategic Resource Allocators
INTP – Casual Spenders, Strategic Resource Allocator
ENTP – Impulsive Spenders, Strategic Resource Allocator
ENTJ – Impulsive, Calculated, Strategic Resource Allocator
INFP – Minimalistic and Casual Spender
INFJ – Planned and Minimalistic Spender
ENFJ – Social, Budgeted Spender
ENFP – Social, Impulsive Spender
ISTP – Casual and Calculated Spender
ISFP – Casual and Thrifty Spender
ESTP – Impulsive, Risk Taking Logical Spender
ESFP – Impulsive, Risk Taking Social Spender
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For those who are ESFJs, or perhaps come into regular contact with ESFJs, you may be well aware of the ability an ESFJ has to connect with others, to be well-liked, and to make sure those around them are happy.
They love knowing what’s going on in the world around them and love connecting to others. They have a natural trust for leaders and love to serve in any way they can. This can lead others to question their motives, wondering if it’s out of an obligation or a genuine desire.
ESFJs can make friends with anyone they meet (some even say they could talk to a wall!). But being so extroverted doesn’t mean that ESFJs tell all about themselves. For many things, ESFJs keep mum because they deem certain things inappropriate to talk about.
In this article, we’re taking a look at what ESFJs want you to know about them.
“I participate in service because I WANT to.”
It’s rare that you find someone loves to serve others and does it by choice. But, as an ESFJ, that’s just what I do! I can understand that sometimes others serve because they feel obligated to, but that’s not the case for me.
In fact, service is one way I find my joy. Because of this, I enjoy volunteering, taking care of others, and understanding where others are coming from. Of course, I have an expectation that others will do likewise, but I am genuinely disappointed when others don’t.
“I’m really, really sensitive.”
Not only do I take things personally, but I also empathize with the feelings of those around me. I can see when someone is upset around me, and it’s always my goal to make them feel better by talking to them.
If you’re my family, friend, or coworker, please try and be extra gentle when giving me negative feedback. I may act like I can take it and smile, but it hurts me more than it looks.
“When something isn’t planned well, it drives me insane.”
I thrive on routine and plans, and spontaneity just isn’t my thing. I do really well at planned events when I know what is going to happen.
I also really like planning and organizing events and things for others, especially when they’re events and activities that others will enjoy.
But I can’t stand people who refuse to stick to the plan or make changes as and when they wish. I feel these people don’t give respect to those who have made plans already.
“You can count on me.”
I know sometimes people say this and don’t mean it, but I can promise you I do. I am a naturally loyal person, and it is important to me never to let down those relying on me.
Whether in my personal life or in the workplace, I’m here for those around me and enjoy being relied on. It gives me a sense of purpose to help others. To fail in doing so is a big blow to me, hence I do all I can to make sure I fulfill my word to you.
“I care what people think about me.”
As much as I may hate to admit, I do care what others think of me. I care about social status, and I care about doing things that make me look my best. It’s just the natural people-pleaser in me.
This can sometimes hinder me, of course, and take away some of the individual characteristics that make me, ME. However, I just really want to please others and have a positive influence on those around me.
You can help me by assuring me that I am loved by you and by the people around me. It matters a lot to me.
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