This section ESFP-ESFP relationship is about how these two personality types come together in a relationship. Specifically, we will be looking at the joys of this relationship as well as the struggles this relationship may have.
The ESFP-ESFP relationship has 4 preference similarities and 0 preference differences. Regardless of the number of similarities and differences, each personality combination will have its unique set of challenges. We will look at each of the 4 preferences individually:
Because both parties enjoy people, they are likely to go for many socializing activities and parties together.
They will likely enjoy each other’s energy and zest for life and have many fun activities and adventures together.
Because of their love for people and socializing, they are likely to have a large network around them, supporting and mediating for the couple in time of need.
Because both love to speak, (not so much listen), they may try to compete for air time when conversing with one another. So instead of listening, they may out talk each other in order to be heard.
Hence, they may not feel fulfilled, especially if one party is always doing the talking and the other doing the listening.
One party may turn to outside friends to fill that desire to speak and be heard, and in bad cases, it may lead to extra-marital affair.
Will likely enjoy similar topics in conversation, mainly about past and present happenings related to, people they’ve met, places they’ve been, experiences they seen.
Both like language simple, straightforward and literal; will likely ‘click’ with each other.
Because both tend to live in the present, household duties are less likely to be neglected. However the more passive ones may still not perform them.
Although both enjoy Sensory details, the couple may disagree on specifics in the household: i.e. what colour should the wall be, where should the vase be placed.
In times of crises, both partners tend to over-worry or think up worst case scenarios, which is unproductive and sometimes cause destructive conflict between the couple.
In such cases, they may lack the future looking vision that will help them through the crisis.
Both parties are attracted to each other’s warmth, sensitivity and kindness to each other’s needs.
Both will likely enjoy their expressiveness and natural affection with each other.
Both Feeling types tend to recognize and consider their partner’s needs and try to meet them. Hence there is usually high level of harmony in the relationship.
Because both value some level of harmony, they may store up unhappy feelings inside and not share openly.
They may avoid necessary conflict and disagreements; this is unhealthy in the long run for the quality of the relationship.
Because both may decisions with their personal values, they may sometimes overlook logical consequences of certain actions.
Both parties enjoy being spontaneous to changing circumstances and keeping their options open without seeing the need to come to a decision.
Both tend to be okay with going with the flow; for the most part, daily decisions like eating locations or recreational activities are decided on a whim. Little conflict over these issues.
Both parties are comfortable with disorganization in the household; the household will probably be messy, and both are perfectly fine with it.
Both parties tend to be less consistent in performing routine household tasks like cleaning the house, doing the laundry and paying the bills.
However, since these activities are a necessary evil, the partner that tries to do these tasks consistently may feel frustrated and maybe resentful.
Also, because both parties want to keep their options open, they are likely to procrastinate making important decisions, sometimes even pushing it away until they make none.