ISTJ vs ESTP
Here’s how you can connect with your friend better:
Let go of little things
Watch your tendency to be pick about order and precision, be willing to occasionally let the little things go!
Trust your friend
Trust your friend and allow your friend to enjoy their spare time without having to account for every minute.
Don’t always say no
Be game enough to participate in some of the adventures your friend suggests! Do not automatically say no all the time.
Participate in their events
Try to participate in as many social activities as you can with your friend. If you can’t do it, tell your friend to go ahead without you.
Live in the moment
Be willing to stop what you’re doing and leave things unfinished once in a while. Learn to enjoy the moment and have fun with your friend!