Here’s how you can connect with your friend better:

Give your friend time to talk

Occasionally you may find yourself dominating the conversation and leaving your friend out of the picture. When that happens, just give your friend the airtime by asking a question.

Make commitments together

The issue is that both of you love fun so much you may not get down to planning things or settling things. Watch out for this blind spot together.

Do things together

Less talk, more action. That’s both of your mottos. Sometimes the best relationship builder is simply just doing fun activities together.

Don’t take the challenge personally

Both you and your friend like to play the devil’s advocate by challenging the other party. Don’t take things personally – enjoy the challenge and let it pass.

Don’t let things get out of hand

Sometimes, both of you may do things for instant gratification and not consider longer-term implications. Stop and reflect together once in a while.