ESFJ vs ESFP
Here’s how you can connect with your friend better.
Take turns to share and speak
Give time for your friend to share and speak if you happen to dominate a conversation. Ask questions and listen patiently.
Don’t be too serious
Your friend enjoys a light-hearted and casual atmosphere even when working. Keep things light and easy; your friend is most productive in that state.
Avoid micro-managing your friend
Don’t try to manage your friend’s life in any way. Your friend will resist it and move away from you. Give your friend freedom.
Let your friend try things
You tend to guide your friend on how to avoid mistakes, but your friend wants to learn new things essentially by making mistakes through trying. Don’t stop him/her from trying things out!
Your friend is highly spontaneously and can make changes to plans quickly and easily without telling you. Expect changes and be patient.