ENFJ vs ISFJ
Here’s how you can connect with your friend better.
Slowly suggest change
Your friend is the happiest when the present is maintained. If you do suggest a change, be patient and supportive as this is stressful and way out of your friend’s comfort zone.
Don’t jump to conclusions
Let your friend finish his/her sentences. He/she prefers thinking things through before speaking and being clear and precise about important matters.
Check on your friend regularly
Your friend is inclined to putting on a happy front and holding in resentment for harmony’s sake. Try to check on him/her regularly and offer a listening ear.
Provide details in explanation
A lack of specific instructions can leave your friend very confused. Learn to tell him/her what exactly you expect.
Show little acts of love
Buy something meaningful for your friend; tell your friend how much he/she is appreciated for who he/she is. Small acts of love are great morale boosters.